Spoken from Experience!

A few words of advice for my friends and readers… These are from personal experience so I am not trying to philosophical!

Advice: Do not ever lend money, especially to relatives and friends.
Reason: It is the best way to lose them for good!

Advice: Do not give your complete trust to anyone, even if you think they are trustworthy.
Reason: Circumstances change people and what you thought you know about them might change as well.

Advice: Do not allow people to take you for granted, even those who are closest to you.
Reason: When people take you for granted, it will be much easier for them to walk out on you because they do feel that you will hang around waiting for them!

Advice: Set your priorities in life and do not let anything or anyone interfere in them, for any reason whatsoever.
Reason: When your priorities are flexible, you will end up bending them until you break!

Advice: Do not allow anyone to make you feel bad about yourself and what you have been through.
Reason: We are after all results of those experiences; they shaped us to be who we are.

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X-dreamer, fighter and writer... Using words to unleash the pain that eats me from the inside out, day after day!
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4 Responses to Spoken from Experience!

  1. zeezazoo says:

    niiiiice…amazing!! i like these advices… i always think of them but i can't put them in words and explain them the way u did…after all, we are who we are… those r our experiences, our memories, our lives… we lived them, living them cuz we think it's the best way we have right now, and if u have a better way for us, tell us, and we will take it in consideration… but do not interfere… cause after all, they didn't call it "personal life" if it was for the public!!do not lend money to relatives and friends… well, i do not agree with u, cuz when i lend someone money, i have this big percentage in my mind that he/she is not going to give it back… but when i give it, i give it from the heart and if the person i was giving him/her the money was worth it, i know he/she will give it back to me in anyway he/she could… and if he/she didn't, then it'll be the last time and thank god it came on something like this, cuz money come and go, we can always make more instead!!about the trust thing… well, this is a big bad issue, when u trust someone u shouldn't trust… it hurts, but after all, these things i mean the results are just temporary, they will fade away and u'll go on with ur life no matter what… and u'll try this trust thing with someone else, until u find the right person to share those big stories that kills u with… i always try to trust people with small issues to test them, before i put myself in troubles…there's a lot to talk about these advices, but i really liked what u wrote…

  2. buffy says:

    yes dear i dont trust an one u r right&dont make any one feel me bad coz its already done wz me u r so right beebee

  3. Anonymous says:

    we will always learn from each other.cz i consider u an impo tutor in my life!amazing writing as always

  4. Indaxi says:

    Hehehe,,3anjad kil chi zakarti mazbout 100 % hehe,,3am bid7ak cos killon saro ma3e hehehe,,ma 3ada 2ousit al trust,,cos i always keep the 1 % for my self if you remember

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